Have you heard of getting two dead people married? I never thought that it would happen in my family.

My brother died since he was 19 yrs old. Long time ago. Yesteday we have this ceremony for him. He got married.

Have prepared for him a bed, a car (not mercedez benz but wonder what car brand it is) with driver (I wonder who the driver will be), a house (quite nice. Two storey high. (There is a paper person standing in front of the door. I dont know who it is). There is a car in front of the house, I wonder he will get two cars? There is an agreement stating the house purchase contract, stating that have bought a place for them to stay there. 3000 dollars. My mouth open wide when I heard this ((lucky no saliva flowing out)). I really dont know who is doing all the adminstration work. Maybe when I am dead I can work there as adminstrator.

I dont know, when my parents told me about this marriage and it is my brother who have found this girlfriend,I was so stunned with disbelief. Somethings just cannot be explained. Whether I believe it or not, still it is done and let my parents feel a relief.

I still feel so bizzare .

This is the queen size bed ( I prefer tempur).

Bungalow House with car and lots of money

Saturday my sis's big day. Friday nite all her jie mei play mahjiong until 1 plus am in the morning. I wanted to sleep also but couldnt sleep. Woke up at 4.30am as usual, 5pm photographer came for her make up and start photographing her.

Then whole day was just busy with preparation.

I hope that Sis will like the gift i gave to her. It is some cash and a necklace.

Happy and sad in a way, happy that my sis found a good husband who dotes on her. Sad in a way she wont be coming home so often anymore. We will definitely miss her.

But singapore is so small, she can come home when she wanted to.

Chinese Wedding Dowry List Betrothal 过大礼/纳彩Up to a month and at least three days before the wedding day, the groom and a friend or a matchmaker will deliver the betrothal gifts on the auspicious date chosen. Western and chinese wedding cakes and peanut candies, together with two bottles of brandy, at least six tins of canned pork legs and even number of oranges are included in the wedding gift baskets. Two pairs of dragon and phoenix candles 龙凤烛are also included. Also included is gold jewellery from the groom's parents to the bride, such as the Cantonese Dragon and phoenix bangle 龙凤琢 or the teochew's four items of gold四点金. Some include the bride's price with the betrothal gifts, whereas some will only present it when the groom fetches the bride. In the return gifts, the 2 bottles of brandy will be replaced with 2 bottles of orange syrup. An even numbered portion of all the other gifts are returned to the groom's family together with the 2 phoenix candles. The bride's side will light the 2 dragon candles and the groom's side the phoenix candles on the morning of the wedding day.

Delivery of the bride's dowry 送嫁妆The bride's parents may include the bride's dowry with the return gifts on the day of betrothal or deliver the dowry a few days before the wedding. The chinese dowry typically include - beddings such as pillows, bolsters, comforter set, blankets, bed sheets, etc., all tied with red ribbons;- new clothes in a suitcase for the bride (in the past, wardrobes or wooden wedding chests are used.);- tea set for the wedding tea ceremony;- baby bathtub, potty, face washbasin, tumblers, toothpaste and toothbrushes, mirror, comb;- two pairs of red wooden clogs wedding slippers or bedroom slippers;- sewing basket with even numbered rolls of colourful thread, needles, pincushion, scissors, and sewing wax with auspicious words on it;- gold jewellery given by bride's parents.

Most important of all, my future Brother in law gave me Ang Bao!! With money inside hehehe.

See pictures...

Yesterday whole day was eating, lunch chery invite me for her after wedding lunch. At nite my sis pre wedding food tasting, all good food. Slurp.. Yummy. So now stomach damn big. Burrp......

Mushroom, sea cucumber with vegy.

The fish is very fresh! Yummy

The Roasted chicken was nice and tender but a little bit too salty

Noodle was nice but a little bit too oily

The mango pudding was yummy! Real mango inside

Mummy daddy, sis and brother in law

Hmm my sis hair accessories. Orchid on her head. Very big orchid. Head grow flowers already. Roses will be sexy too. If have sakura, put on the head also nice. Then put some leaves oh man. Can do a gardening session.

My sister is getting married soon. It will be during Sept 2007. I am happy for her of course. But will miss her also. We have slept together for so many years already. Feel lonely when sleep alone. Maybe I can go and sleep in between them some days when I feel lonely? I need to ask my sis. She will scream at me I guess. I like this actual wedding day dress. Looks great on her. Her night gown hmm too much for me. But as long as she likes it. I will like it also. But still she is pretty in it.